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Pregnant with Impatience

Shelly Hendricks is a wife and mother of 2 amazing kids. She was a teacher and a librarian in another life. She also suffers from Intracranial Hypertension, Interstitial Cystitis, and Essential Tremor, among a myriad of other issues mostly stemming from these three. She had brain surgery in 2012, to install a VP Shunt, and now considers herself to be a ‘bionic woman’ who is learning to walk again. Disability has been hard to deal with, but she depends on God for all strength and hopes to encourage others on this journey, through her blog at http://reneweddaily.com



Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. And let endurance have its perfect result, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. - James 1:2-4

When I was pregnant with my second child, my beautiful girl, I was on bed rest for 2 months.  My daughter was so excited to greet the world that she decided she didn't need the 9 months required by other babies to fully develop in the womb.  Nope, she figured she only needed 7 months.  I and her doctors knew better, however, and so we did everything we could to keep her inside my body for the appropriate amount of time.

In this life of chronic... well, everything... it's so hard not to feel like my little baby daughter did while she shared my body.  I find myself fighting impatience.  Sometimes the impatience feels like it has a life of it's own, and it grows and grows until it becomes large and angry and destructive.  Destructive to my own good.
You see, just as my child needed time to develop what she would need to successfully greet the world and live the life she was meant to live, I need time for God's work in me to fully develop and equip me for the challenges to come.

It is so easy to forget that God is doing a work in me, that I am developing.  It mostly feels like I'm just sitting around and waiting.  Actually it mostly feels like I'm just sitting around.  Scratch the waiting.  I don't feel that useful most days.



But the beauty of God is that He is God.  He's not limited by my finite imagination, and He isn't spurred on by my growing sense of impatience.  Thankfully, He continues on at His pace with His plan.  And I am reassured to know that He knows what I need, His ways are higher than mine, and His will will be what prevails.

I need to think of my life as a precious pregnancy, something to be protected and appreciated.  I need to be patient and reassured, not rushing headlong into anything that could distract me.  I will try to recognize the importance of these years that feel like waiting.  I will trust that they are necessary and vital.



Trust, that's the ticket, isn't it?  I trust you, Lord.  Do Your work in me.


Heavenly Father, help me to be more aware of the work You are doing in me.  Grant me more patience in the waiting.  In Jesus' Name, Amen...

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3 Reasons We Can Know God Still Speaks Today

When I was in college, one day I went by myself to a Taco Bell, and while I was there, I noticed an older man across the dining room.

For some reason, he caught my attention.  I observed him off and on while I was eating, but there was nothing particularly remarkable about him.

When I was leaving the restaurant, he was standing by the door.  He stopped me and said that God told him to give me twenty dollars and to tell me that He cared for me.

I don't know in what way God spoke to him, whether it was a voice or some other manner, but I do believe that it happened.

It pains me sometimes when I hear people say that God doesn't speak to us today.  Many people say that the Bible has everything in it that we need to know, and I won't disagree that the Bible is complete for the church as a whole, but I believe that sometimes we as individuals need a little more, something a little more specific, a little more direct.

Does God still speak to us today?  I think so, and here are three reasons why.







1.  Paul said that we should seek to prophesy.

"Pursue love, yet desire earnestly spiritual gifts, but especially that you may prophesy. . . . But one who prophesies speaks to men for edification and exhortation and consolation."  1 Corinthians 14:1, 3 (NASB)

What is prophecy other than speaking what God says?  And how do we say what He says without knowing what He is saying?

2.  The Bible doesn't say we shouldn't expect it.  Rather, we see over and over again people in the early church hearing God speak . . . and not just the original apostles.

Paul:  

"As he was traveling, it happened that he was approaching Damascus, and suddenly a light from heaven flashed around him; and he fell to the ground and heard a voice saying to him, 'Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting Me?'

"And he said, 'Who are you, Lord?'

"And He said, 'I am Jesus whom you are persecuting, but get up and enter the city, and it will be told to you what you must do.'"  Acts 9:3-6 (NASB)


Peter:

"While Peter was reflecting on the vision, the Spirit said to him, 'Behold, three men are looking for you.  But get up, go downstairs and accompany them without misgivings, for I have sent them Myself.'" Acts 10:19-20 (NASB)


Agabus:

"As we were staying there for some days, a prophet named Agabus came down from Judea.  And coming to us, he took Paul's belt and bound his own feet and hands, and said, 'This is what the Holy Spirit says, 'In this way the Jews at Jerusalem will bind the man who owns this belt and deliver him into the hands of the Gentiles.'" Acts 21:11 (NASB)

I find the Bible to be a book of examples rather than a book of exceptions to the rule, especially since the Bible does not tell us we should not expect to hear from Him in the same way as the early church did.  Some try to argue that the Bible does say prophecy and similar gifts are no longer active, but the burden of proof is on them, and I and many others find their evidence lacking.


3.  It happens.  We never want experience to be our first argument for or against anything, because our experiences can deceive, but without experiences, our other two points are irrelevant.  If no one is hearing from God, what is the point of trying to convince you that it's possible?  

I have heard story after story about people hearing from God, sometimes for themselves and sometimes to help people around them.  I believe I have heard him as well.  It doesn't happen often for me, but when it does, I hear a thought in the middle of my thoughts.  It feels somehow foreign, like it didn't originate in my own mind but was placed there.  

Please take a moment and consider these two stories of people hearing from God.

"I was sitting on a plane when the Holy Spirit kept stirring my heart to ask the man next to me if there was anything I could pray for him about.  I was hesitant the entire flight but finally obeyed.  When I asked, he stated that he didn't believe in prayers since he was raised Catholic and didn't believe in the church or anything that went with it.  I felt immediately shot down and thought, 'Oh great, some impact I made!'  But it's when I shared with him my travel plans to see my father who was recently diagnosed with terminal cancer that he looked into my eyes with tears streaming down his face and said, 'Pray for your dad for me; that's my prayer!'  Then he said, 'God bless you, child,' and gave me a hug.  With God's plan, He enabled me to either plant, water, or grow a spiritual seed that day!"  - Kristin

"Many years ago, Bill and I were deciding whether to have more children, and I found out that I was pregnant.  I was upset because we had not made up our minds yet!  In a couple of weeks I had a miscarriage and went through a time where I thought God was punishing me because I wasn't sure I had wanted that baby.  (Bill had two and I had one when we got married, and by this time we had three together, so six total.)  One night I had a dream and the Lord told me I would have one more child, a girl and name her Mary Rose.  At that time, I was already two weeks pregnant and that is how Mary Rose came into our lives.  I am a firm believer that God does speak to us and we better be ready to listen!"  - Teri



Some things to think about:

Most people who hear God do not hear a voice audible to their ears.  Rather, they are listening to God with the Spirit inside them.  They hear God speaking in their thoughts, they get a sort of "impression," or they see a picture in their mind or have a dream while sleeping.  

Some people are able to hear from God more easily than others.  Often that comes by having a close relationship with Him, as well as practicing and testing what you hear.  

Why should you test what you hear?  It is easy for our own minds to get in the way of hearing God.  So when you hear something you think might be from God, you need to confirm it, so far as you can.  

The most important way to do that is to compare it to the Bible.  If what you hear is a contradiction of the scriptures, you either did not hear it from Him at all or you greatly misunderstood.  God will not contradict Himself.

After you have tested what you heard against the Bible, test it against what you know.  If He tells you something about an event or a person, see if it matches up with what you already know or can reasonably discover.  If it doesn't match up, don't dismiss it outright, but set it aside for a time.  As situations progress, you may find that what you heard does prove itself to be true.

You talk:

Has God spoken to you before?

In what manner did you hear?

Did you know right away that it was Him or did you discover that later?  What made you realize it was Him? 

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Wednesday Witness - Kimberly Tavernier






Welcome to Wednesday Witness!  Please read this week's testimony and be encouraged!  All comments on Wednesday Witness should be encouraging and uplifting. 


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How Jesus Rescued Me

                My parents met and married in Bible College. They had both been sent there by their parents in an effort to bring them closer to God and instead they found each other. Early on in their marriage they pastored a small church in Oregon, but by the time I was born that was all a distant memory and they were well on their way to divorce. I was two when they finally split up and then I lived with my mom and later, when she remarried, with her and my stepdad. They all drank a lot, partied a lot and fought a lot.

                My grandparents on both sides were faithful Christians and while I only saw my dad’s parents once in a while as they were missionaries, my mom’s parents took me to church each week. I learned all the flannel board stories and sang “Jesus Loves Me” as loud as I could because I believed it. Church was a safe place for me and as chaotic as my home life was, I longed to be there.

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Wednesday Witness - Julie-Ann Sargeant




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My Full Empty Sac

I finally resigned from a job after 16 years of hard work and much stress.  For many years I prayed that God provided an opportunity for me so I could leave.  I was working  12 - 14 hour days sometimes 6 days a week.  Because of this often I missed church and this placed a strain on my relationship with God.  However, I decided to be patient and obedient.  My new job opportunity came quite by surprise.  I did not apply, they contacted me.  What a blessing from God.  Within two weeks I started my new job.  Boy was I excited; life could not get any better.  But yes, it can, and it did.  I quickly found out I was pregnant, quite by accident.  Boy was I excited.  So excited that at seven weeks, I was looking for baby clothes online.  My husband and daughter were equally excited.  Our daughter went on the internet researching baby names  She came up the Jair which means he shines.

On May 15, I had my doctor's appointment for a checkup.  It was on this same date nine years ago I gave birth to my daughter.  For may reasons, I will never forget this day.  The doctor told me my sac was empty.  I asked what that meant in bewitchment and he said there is no baby in the sac.  I did not know what to think; for that matter I could not think.  The doctor said sometimes these things happen and to return in one week's time to have another ultrasound.  He stated sometimes you don't always see the baby so early.  He further told me not to get my hopes up too high because at that point I was also spotting.  I must say he was very compassionate and allowed me the time to compose myself.  I did not know how I would break this news to my husband and my daughter on her birthday.  I wanted to leave his office as quickly as I could but as fate would have it, I had to wait my turn to pay the bill.  I waited my turn and silently cried.

I tried to be strong, but on leaving the office, I just broke down.  My husband has been very supportive during this difficult time.  He was the one that broke the news to our daughter.  She is so strong and understanding.  I pray everyday that God will continue to bless her.  I had to wait a full week to hear what was going to happen next.  During this time I continued to bleed, and as the days went by, it got heavier.  My church was praying that all would be well, but I knew in my heart I was losing this child.  I think in a way I accepted that fact even before my return to the doctor.  My husband said I have given up, I did not have faith that God can turn this around and maybe wanted to use me to perform something special.  I don't know, it's not that I did not have faith, I just knew it was not to be.  

One week later I returned and the doctor, and he confirmed I was having a miscarriage.  At that point I was strong until he told me he prefers for nature to take its natural course and allow everything to come out on its own.  I was confused and angry.  How does he expect me to do this?  I wanted to get this over, but he insisted this was the best way. The next ten days were difficult, but I must say I had a sense of peace I can't describe.  All around me friends and family were concerned that I was handling this too well.  They were waiting for the other shoe to drop, but it never happened.  God has been my source of strength and even though I was disappointed, I know he was in control.  He has placed people and opportunities in my life to make me stronger.  When I told my new boss what was happening, he was very supportive.  It was at that point that I found out he was a Christian as well.  He quoted me scriptures that gave me strength and encouragement to keep the faith.  

This experience has brought me much closer to God.  On reflection maybe that was what God intended from the start.  Daily I still think about Jair and what he/she would have been like.  Nonetheless, he shines.  God is truly awesome.  My faith has been renewed, I am happy, have a fantastic family and belong to a good church.

Regardless of what comes my way, my sac was empty, but filled with God's grace and that is sufficient for me.


- Julie-Ann Sargeant

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Christmas Revisited


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Every year when Christmas comes around, my Facebook newsfeed fills with posts related to the holiday.  I often see variations of posts decrying the use of the abbreviation Xmas.  Every year I try to explain to my Facebook friends why it’s actually not as terrible as they think it is (see below), I haven’t seemed to make any difference from one year to the next.

This one, really minor issue, makes me think of all the other things we don’t get exactly right when it comes to the Christmas story.  Very few of these things are matters of significance, but it should encourage us to take another look at the details of the Christmas story.


Xmas
We’ll start with Xmas, since you’re probably very curious by now.  The first thing to know is, even though we pronounce “Xmas” as if that first letter is the English letter “x”, actually it’s not.  It is the first letter of the Greek word '”christos,” translated Christ.  The letter was often used as an abbreviation for Christ.

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This symbol is called a labarum.  It is a combination of the first two Greek letters of Christ.  The “x” is a “chi'” and the “p” is a “rho.” 


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Another good example of using the “chi” to stand for Christ is in the acronym “ichthus,” which is where the Jesus fish came from.  “Ichthus” is the Greek word for fish, but more importantly is that it uses the first letters of the Greek words “Jesus Christ, Son of God, Savior,” which in Greek is pronounced “Iesous, Christos, Theou, Yios, Soter.”

According to several websites, including this one at TLC's How Stuff Works, the “chi” has been used as an abbreviation for the name of Christ since the 16th century, and some variations of it have been used as long ago as 1021.  Using the abbreviation Xmas is simply another example of using the “chi” as an abbreviation of Christ.

I won’t dispute that some outside the church may use Xmas in place of Christmas in an attempt to leave Christ out, but it looks like the joke is on them!

Joseph and Mary Travel Alone to Bethlehem
Mary and Joseph
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“Now in those days a decree went out from Caesar Augustus, that a census be taken of all the inhabited earth.  This was the first census taken while Quirinius was governor of Syria.  And everyone was on his way to register for the census, each to his own city.  Joseph also went up from Galilee, from the city of Nazareth, to Judea, to the city of David which is called Bethlehem, because he was of the house and family of David, in order to register along with Mary, who was engaged to him, and was with child.”  Luke 2:1-5 (NASB).

Because everyone was expected to participate in this census, I find it difficult to imagine that Mary and Joseph traveled by themselves to Bethlehem, even though we’ve seen the Christmas card pictures again and again of Mary riding on a donkey and Joseph leading the animal along the road. 

Joseph and Mary likely did not travel the most direct route to Bethlehem from Nazareth because that would have taken them through Samaria, which Jews typically went out of their way to avoid.  According to the IVP New Testament Commentary on Luke, this journey would have been about 90 miles and taken approximately three days.

Two people, including a woman advanced in her pregnancy, could not reasonably travel that distance safely by themselves.  It is much more likely they joined a caravan as was custom.  Notice another example of this later in Luke 2 when Jesus stayed in Jerusalem even though Joseph and Mary were headed back home. 

“And as they were returning, after spending the full number of days, the boy Jesus stayed behind in Jerusalem.  But His parents were unaware of it, but supposed Him to be in the caravan, and went a day’s journey; and they began looking for Him among their relatives and acquaintances.”  Luke 2:43-44 (NASB).

When you think of Joseph and Mary traveling to Bethlehem, picture them in a long caravan of people and probably animals.  And speaking of animals, how did we decide they had a donkey?  It’s certainly possible, but it’s never stated.

Born in a Barn

“While they were there, the days were completed for her to give birth.  And she gave birth to her firstborn son; and she wrapped Him in cloths, and laid Him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn.”  Luke 2:6-7 (NASB).

The scene of the innkeeper sending Joseph and his pregnant wife away is a typical part of any Christmas play, but I would love to see one that looks more like it actually happened.  You can go to Answers in Genesis to see more about this idea, but I’ll summarize it for you.  If you read Luke 2:6-7 without our preconceptions, it sounds like the two had probably been in Bethlehem for a while, rather than just coming in to town as we picture it.  It is unlikely they would have not found a place to stay after more than a day, especially since much of their family would have been there with them, whether having traveled along with them or already living in the town. 

Further, the word used for “inn” in the second verse is actually a word for guest room.  Joseph and Mary were probably staying with family but there was no room in the upper level of the house, so they stayed in the bottom level of the house, which was often used to hold the animals at night.  Maybe this could legitimately allow us to say that He was born in a barn, but it is definitely not the rickety wooden building set apart from the inn that we have pictured in our minds.  Rather, it is a home, with others present to attend Mary during the birth.

We Three Kings

“Now after Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judea in the days of Herod the king, magi from the east arrived in Jerusalem, saying, “Where is He who has been born King of the Jews?  For we saw His star in the east and have come to worship Him.” Matthew 2:1-2 (NASB).

Our nativity scenes often show Mary and Joseph, Jesus, all the animals, the shepherds, and the wise men all together.  I really don’t believe that is accurate. 

“Then when Herod saw that he had been tricked by the magi, he became very enraged, and sent and slew all the male children who were in Bethlehem and all its vicinity, from two years old and under, according to the time which he had determined from the magi.”  Matthew 2:16 (NASB).

The star appeared at Jesus’ birth, and it seems that, inferring from verse 16, that had been as much as two years prior.  The magi were certainly not present at the same time as the shepherds, but much later.

Also, how did we ever decide that there were three magi?  There were three gifts: gold, frankincense, and myrrh.  We do not know, though, that there was one man per gift. 

One of my favorite paintings of the magi is Adoration of the Magi by Fra Angelico.  You can click on this link to view it.  I love this one because Jesus is older than a newborn infant and there are eight magi present.


The Christmas season is full of beautiful history, stories, and traditions, but sometimes the church needs to take a step back and look carefully at what we believe.  Does the Bible actually say that?



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