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Eyes That See

Shelly Hendricks is a wife and mother of 2 amazing kids. She was a teacher and a librarian in another life. She also suffers from Intracranial Hypertension, Interstitial Cystitis, and Essential Tremor, among a myriad of other issues mostly stemming from these three. She had brain surgery in 2012, to install a VP Shunt, and now considers herself to be a ‘bionic woman’ who is learning to walk again. Disability has been hard to deal with, but she depends on God for all strength and hopes to encourage others on this journey, through her blog at http://reneweddaily.com
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But blessed are your eyes, because they see; and your ears, because they hear. - Matthew 13:16

How's your Eternal Vision? Do you know what I mean?

When you look at someone, do you see the now, or the could be? Do you see the filth or imagine the splendor?

Basically what I'm asking... Do you leave room for Jesus?

Do you see that child, trying so hard not to be childlike that raced headlong into trouble? Now her belly is rounding with new life, and people avoid her gaze and ask questions that don't just not have easy answers... they have no answers. When you look at her downcast face, do you see a scarlet letter, or do you envision her 15 years from now, standing next to her new husband as new life starts again in her womb? Look closely... see the tears in her eyes? They are a result of her joy as she watches that first love rise up out of the water and put on new life. Think it'll never happen? Guess what... she can't imagine it at this moment, either. She can't imagine anything beyond the shame and terror engulfing her right now. Will you be Jesus in her life?

Do you see that man, the one who doesn't smell too fresh and takes up half the sidewalk as he sprawls out over the vent, trying to keep warm as temperatures drop? Do you see his unshaven face? Perhaps it's not so much that he has no razor, as it is that he is trying to hide. Why not, when he's mostly invisible now anyway? When you look into those proud eyes, do you see a wasted life, or do you imagine a business owner in a snazzy suit? You'll know it's him because he's the one who stops to offer a smile and knows the homeless in his neighborhood by name. He's going to lead so many out of hunger and into Christ. Think I'm crazy? So does he. Right this minute he can't dream of anything larger than making it through the night. Will you be Christ in his day?

Do you see that woman, the one who everyone calls the “Barracuda”? Yeah, her. She's angry and out for blood and always, always strikes first. She gives no quarter and lives to cut any opponents off at the knees... and she sees absolutely everyone as an opponent. When you give her a quick, non-challenging glance from the corner of your eye, do you see a woman who loves her nickname and lives to make it true, or do you see the possibility of a woman whose heart of stone is revealed as a wounded and weeping thing that, if bound and healed, could go on to recognize other wounded and rescue them? Think it's impossible? No one would laugh harder than the “Barracuda”, were you to suggest such a thing.  Then again, no one would hope more desperately that you maybe, might be, could it be?... Right? Will you be the Light in her dark, dark darkness?



In tens, maybe hundreds, dare I guess thousands of opportunities a day, you have a choice to make.

Will you see the reality, or will you look with your eternal eyes?

Will you be that one, that rare gem, that light, that salt that offers God in dark places, in dark times, to dark people?

What I mean to say is: Won't you?
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Dear Lord, let it be that You are not only found in heaven, but in Your people here on this earth. Help us to handle the hard. In Jesus' Name, Amen...

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What if?




My junior high school published a monthly newspaper called the Cardinal Star.  It was written by a dozen or so eighth graders.  I was thrilled at the end of seventh grade when I was chosen to be one of the people who informed and entertained our school each month.  We wrote about teachers, clubs, sports, class projects, and anything else we could think of. But we especially loved the silly things:  quizzes, puzzles, games, and jokes.  One of my favorite things to write were “what ifs”.

What if the sky was green instead of blue?

What if the principal used Rogaine?

What if Mr. P taught home ec and Mrs. P taught science?

What if the football team wasn’t good?

What if the basketball team was?

What if we had pizza for lunch every day?

Each issue had pages of these silly questions, absurdities, impossibilities, and inside jokes.  And we loved them.

But now life is full of different what ifs.

What if that check doesn’t clear?

What if I forget to lock the door and someone breaks in?  What if I lock the door and 
someone breaks in anyway?

What if I get sick?

What if gas gets too expensive?

What if there is a tornado/earthquake/ hurricane?

What if I get hurt in a car accident?

What if I lose my job?

What if that mistake I made blows up in my face?

What if he/she does this/that?

What if?

What if?

What if?

I am always worrying about what is going to happen next.  And I know I am not the only one.

But Jesus made it clear that He expects us not to worry!

“For this reason I say to you, do not be worried about your life, as to what you will eat or what you will drink; nor for your body, as to what you will put on.  Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing?  

"Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them.  Are you not worth much more than they?  And who of you by being worried can add a single hour to his life?  

"And why are you worried about clothing?  Observe how the lilies of the field grow; they do not toil nor do they spin, yet I say to you that not even Solomon in all his glory clothed himself like one of these.  But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which is alive today and tomorrow is thrown into the furnace, will He not much more clothe you?  

"You of little faith!  Do not worry then, saying ‘What will we eat?’ or ‘What will we drink?’ or ‘What will we wear for clothing?’ For the Gentiles eagerly seek all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things.  But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”  Matthew 6:25-34 (NASB)

Jesus plainly told us that worrying is a symptom of a larger problem – lack of faith.  Jesus has kept the world moving for thousands of years, but we’re worrying about our (often hypothetical) problems. 

We let our worries take our focus off of God.  We need to take control of those worries so that our focus can be on serving God.  When we’re doing this, He promises to take care of us.

When I start feeling anxious, the first thing I do is figure out exactly why I am worried.  Because I generally feel anxious a lot of the time, I don’t always know why I’m feeling that way.  I take a moment to think through my day and usually that is enough to bring to my mind what is bothering me.

Once I know exactly what it is I’m worried about, I decide if there is anything I can do about it.  Sometimes there is a solution, but other times, my worries are future worries that I can’t do anything about.  Having an action in mind is obviously helpful when managing worry, but I've found that simply acknowledging there is nothing I can do about it helps as well.

The most important step, though, is hopefully the obvious one:  prayer.  We should be talking to God throughout our day anyway, so when a worry or concern comes up, we should be taking it directly to Him.  Tell Him what you’re worried about.  Ask Him to take care of it, and then ask Him to help you quit worrying about it. 

“Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you at the proper time, casting all your anxiety on Him, because He cares for you.”   1 Peter 5:6-7 (NASB)


What things do you worry about? How do you handle them?

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The Least of These (Discussion)

Jesus spoke often about caring for the poor and downtrodden.  But I, and maybe you, find it easy to forget that there are people who are worse off than me, that need help in ways I can't imagine.  Even when money has been short, I've at least had a home and a peanut butter sandwich.  I've never run out of gas without the ability to put more in the tank once I walk or catch a ride to the gas station.  

But Jesus wants us to care for the poor.  He treats it as something pretty significant.

This is a long passage here, but I hope you'll read it over before you continue.


"But when the Son of Man comes in His glory, and all the angels with Him, then He will sit on His glorious throne.  All the nations will be gathered before Him; and He will separate them from one another, as the shepherd separates the sheep from the goats; and He will put the sheep on His right, and the goats on the left.

Then the King will say to those on His right, 'Come, you who are blessed of My "Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world.  For I was hungry, and you gave Me something to eat; I was thirsty, and you gave Me something to drink; I was a stranger, and you invited Me in; naked, and you clothed Me; I was sick, and you visited Me; I was in prison, and you came to Me.'  Then the righteous will answer Him, 'Lord, when did we see You hungry, and feed You, or thirsty, and give You something to drink?  And when did we see You a stranger, and invite You in, or naked, and clothe You?  When did we see You sick, or in prison, and come to You?  The King will answer and say to them, 'Truly, I say to you, to the extent that you did it to one of these brothers of Mine, even the least of them, you did it to Me.'

"Then He will say to those on His left, 'Depart from Me, accursed ones, into the eternal fire which has been prepared for the devil and his angels; for I was hungry, and you gave Me nothing to eat; I was thirsty, and you gave Me nothing to drink; I was a stranger, and you did not invite Me in; naked, and you did not clothe Me; sick, and in prison, and you did not visit Me.' Then they themselves will answer, 'Lord, when did we see You hungry, or thirsty, or a stranger, or naked, or sick, or in prison, and did not take care of You?'  Then He will answer them, 'Truly I say to you, to the extent that you did not do it to one of the least of these, you did not do it to Me.'  These will go away into eternal punishment, but the righteous into eternal life."


Matthew 25:31-46 (NASB)


I won't get into an argument about faith versus works here.  I do believe that our salvation comes by our faith in Jesus, not by the acts that we accomplish, but if we are going to take the words of Jesus seriously, we need to decide how we are going to respond to this passage.  It is apparent that this is something Jesus sees as paramount, so we need to come to a decision about what we should be doing to help. 

So please tell me what you think we as Christians should be doing to care for the poor. To what degree are we responsible?  How much of our resources should we be giving?  How much time should we be devoting?  I want to hear what you think about the church caring for the poor.  

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Love Your Enemies


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I like most people.  But like most people, I have people in my life that I don't get along with.  Some of these people mistreated me in ways that are difficult to forgive and let go of, while others have personalities or habits that make me want to cross the street if I see them coming.

Recently while talking with one of these people in my life, they said something rude to me.  What they said was irrelevant.  What matters is my reaction.  In my mind (because I would never say this out loud!), I said, "That's okay.  If you hate me, I'll just hate you right back."

The pure nastiness of my thought startled me, and Jesus' words from the Sermon on the Mount instantly came to mind:

"You have heard that it was said, 'You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven; for He causes His sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous.  For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have?  Do not even the tax collectors do the same?  If you greet only your brothers, what more are you doing than others?  Do not even the Gentiles do the same?  Therefore you are to be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect."  Matthew 5:43-48 (NASB).

I doubt that you and I have many people in our lives that we can genuinely call an enemy, but if we are supposed to treat real enemies in this manner, what does that say about how we treat those people who have hurt us or just get under our skin?  To further the work of Christ and to effectively witness to those outside the church, it is time for a change.

Forgive and let go of offenses.  Forgiveness is important when dealing with major offenses that divide friends and create enemies as well as the small road bumps and potholes that can gradually wear down our relationships.  Commit to forgiveness.  Ask God for help, and remember that sometimes you have to forgive the same person for the same offense many times until you're able to permanently let it go.  As you seek to forgive, put aside any anger you've been carrying toward them.  It hurts you more than it does them, anyway.

Pray for those that hurt you.  When you begin to sincerely pray for someone, you cannot hold on to any negative feelings you have toward them.  Pray for them to be blessed.  Pray for their relationship with God to grow.  Pray for their families to be well.  Pray for your relationship with them.  It will probably be difficult, and you may not see any change in them, but you will find that it does change you.

Treat them with love.  This may in some ways be the hardest one.  When you've forgiven them and prayed for them, acting lovingly toward them may be easy in theory, but it actually involves interacting with them, when the first two do not.  When you begin to change the pattern of the relationship, you are risking failure, both on your part and theirs.  Someone who is used to unpleasant treatment from you is likely to respond negatively even to kindness.  And a negative reaction from them will invariably bring about a negative reaction from you.  Hopefully that will not be the case, but it is likely that it will take some time to turn around the relationship.

You may find that the relationship is irreparable because the other person is unwilling.  Continue to treat them kindly and remember that seeking to pattern your life after Jesus is always beneficial, even if you don't gain a friend. 

Jesus was a loving person, caring for all kinds of people and offered forgiveness even to the people who were instrumental in His death.  If He can love even those who killed Him, who am I to be rude to someone who is rude to me? 

"To sum up, all of you be harmonious, sympathetic, brotherly, kindhearted, and humble in spirit; not returning evil for evil or insult for insult, but giving a blessing instead; for you were called for the very purpose that you might inherit a blessing."   1 Peter 3:8-9 (NASB).

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Christmas Revisited


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Every year when Christmas comes around, my Facebook newsfeed fills with posts related to the holiday.  I often see variations of posts decrying the use of the abbreviation Xmas.  Every year I try to explain to my Facebook friends why it’s actually not as terrible as they think it is (see below), I haven’t seemed to make any difference from one year to the next.

This one, really minor issue, makes me think of all the other things we don’t get exactly right when it comes to the Christmas story.  Very few of these things are matters of significance, but it should encourage us to take another look at the details of the Christmas story.


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We’ll start with Xmas, since you’re probably very curious by now.  The first thing to know is, even though we pronounce “Xmas” as if that first letter is the English letter “x”, actually it’s not.  It is the first letter of the Greek word '”christos,” translated Christ.  The letter was often used as an abbreviation for Christ.

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This symbol is called a labarum.  It is a combination of the first two Greek letters of Christ.  The “x” is a “chi'” and the “p” is a “rho.” 


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Another good example of using the “chi” to stand for Christ is in the acronym “ichthus,” which is where the Jesus fish came from.  “Ichthus” is the Greek word for fish, but more importantly is that it uses the first letters of the Greek words “Jesus Christ, Son of God, Savior,” which in Greek is pronounced “Iesous, Christos, Theou, Yios, Soter.”

According to several websites, including this one at TLC's How Stuff Works, the “chi” has been used as an abbreviation for the name of Christ since the 16th century, and some variations of it have been used as long ago as 1021.  Using the abbreviation Xmas is simply another example of using the “chi” as an abbreviation of Christ.

I won’t dispute that some outside the church may use Xmas in place of Christmas in an attempt to leave Christ out, but it looks like the joke is on them!

Joseph and Mary Travel Alone to Bethlehem
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“Now in those days a decree went out from Caesar Augustus, that a census be taken of all the inhabited earth.  This was the first census taken while Quirinius was governor of Syria.  And everyone was on his way to register for the census, each to his own city.  Joseph also went up from Galilee, from the city of Nazareth, to Judea, to the city of David which is called Bethlehem, because he was of the house and family of David, in order to register along with Mary, who was engaged to him, and was with child.”  Luke 2:1-5 (NASB).

Because everyone was expected to participate in this census, I find it difficult to imagine that Mary and Joseph traveled by themselves to Bethlehem, even though we’ve seen the Christmas card pictures again and again of Mary riding on a donkey and Joseph leading the animal along the road. 

Joseph and Mary likely did not travel the most direct route to Bethlehem from Nazareth because that would have taken them through Samaria, which Jews typically went out of their way to avoid.  According to the IVP New Testament Commentary on Luke, this journey would have been about 90 miles and taken approximately three days.

Two people, including a woman advanced in her pregnancy, could not reasonably travel that distance safely by themselves.  It is much more likely they joined a caravan as was custom.  Notice another example of this later in Luke 2 when Jesus stayed in Jerusalem even though Joseph and Mary were headed back home. 

“And as they were returning, after spending the full number of days, the boy Jesus stayed behind in Jerusalem.  But His parents were unaware of it, but supposed Him to be in the caravan, and went a day’s journey; and they began looking for Him among their relatives and acquaintances.”  Luke 2:43-44 (NASB).

When you think of Joseph and Mary traveling to Bethlehem, picture them in a long caravan of people and probably animals.  And speaking of animals, how did we decide they had a donkey?  It’s certainly possible, but it’s never stated.

Born in a Barn

“While they were there, the days were completed for her to give birth.  And she gave birth to her firstborn son; and she wrapped Him in cloths, and laid Him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn.”  Luke 2:6-7 (NASB).

The scene of the innkeeper sending Joseph and his pregnant wife away is a typical part of any Christmas play, but I would love to see one that looks more like it actually happened.  You can go to Answers in Genesis to see more about this idea, but I’ll summarize it for you.  If you read Luke 2:6-7 without our preconceptions, it sounds like the two had probably been in Bethlehem for a while, rather than just coming in to town as we picture it.  It is unlikely they would have not found a place to stay after more than a day, especially since much of their family would have been there with them, whether having traveled along with them or already living in the town. 

Further, the word used for “inn” in the second verse is actually a word for guest room.  Joseph and Mary were probably staying with family but there was no room in the upper level of the house, so they stayed in the bottom level of the house, which was often used to hold the animals at night.  Maybe this could legitimately allow us to say that He was born in a barn, but it is definitely not the rickety wooden building set apart from the inn that we have pictured in our minds.  Rather, it is a home, with others present to attend Mary during the birth.

We Three Kings

“Now after Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judea in the days of Herod the king, magi from the east arrived in Jerusalem, saying, “Where is He who has been born King of the Jews?  For we saw His star in the east and have come to worship Him.” Matthew 2:1-2 (NASB).

Our nativity scenes often show Mary and Joseph, Jesus, all the animals, the shepherds, and the wise men all together.  I really don’t believe that is accurate. 

“Then when Herod saw that he had been tricked by the magi, he became very enraged, and sent and slew all the male children who were in Bethlehem and all its vicinity, from two years old and under, according to the time which he had determined from the magi.”  Matthew 2:16 (NASB).

The star appeared at Jesus’ birth, and it seems that, inferring from verse 16, that had been as much as two years prior.  The magi were certainly not present at the same time as the shepherds, but much later.

Also, how did we ever decide that there were three magi?  There were three gifts: gold, frankincense, and myrrh.  We do not know, though, that there was one man per gift. 

One of my favorite paintings of the magi is Adoration of the Magi by Fra Angelico.  You can click on this link to view it.  I love this one because Jesus is older than a newborn infant and there are eight magi present.


The Christmas season is full of beautiful history, stories, and traditions, but sometimes the church needs to take a step back and look carefully at what we believe.  Does the Bible actually say that?



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